ADR Law Divorce & Mediation Lawyer
A Better Way to Divorce on Long Island, NY
Look to the Alternative
Couples who resolve their divorce through mediation often experience better emotional well-being post-divorce. ADR Law supports you through every step with care and professionalism.
Kim M. Ciesinski, Esq., PLLC
Board Certified Divorce Mediator
- ✓ 30+ Years Divorce & Family Law Experience
- ✓ Co-Author: “Stress-Free Divorce Volume 3”
- ✓ Certified Mediator – Ackerman Institute for the Family
- ✓ Adjunct Professor at Hofstra University
- ✓ Special Master – Nassau County Supreme Court
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Welcome to
Long Island’s Top Alternative Divorce Resolution Firm
Alternative Divorce Resolution (ADR): fostering an atmosphere of cooperation and privacy for spouses seeking a respectful and non-litigious transition into a separate life. We help couples restructure and transform their families with healthy and positive alternative processes to divorce litigation.
We look forward to our partnership!
Kim M. Ciesinski
Kim M. Ciesinski, Esq., PLLC
Why Choose Divorce Mediation in Long Island?
Alternative divorce resolution offers significant advantages over traditional litigation, helping you protect what matters most: your finances, your time, and your family’s well-being.
Save Money
60-70% less expensive than traditional divorce litigation
Average mediation cost: $4,000-$7,000
vs. traditional litigation: $13,000-$17,000+
Save Time
Complete your divorce in weeks or months, not years
Mediation: 2-6 months
vs. traditional litigation: 9-24 months
Reduce Stress
Peaceful, respectful process that protects your family
Private & cooperative
vs. public courtroom battles
No obligation • Completely confidential • Same-day appointments available
Services
Our Alternative Divorce Resolution Solutions
We offer three process options, allowing divorcing couples to transform their family with dignity and remain in control of their future parental and financial relationships.
Divorce Mediation
Divorce mediation is a private, cost-effective process that fosters open communication and cooperation, allowing spouses to reach a fair and mutually beneficial agreement with the guidance of a neutral facilitator.
Negotiated Settlement
Negotiated settlement divorce is a private, non-adversarial approach that allows spouses to resolve their disputes cooperatively through legal counsel, avoiding litigation while maintaining control over the timing and outcome of their divorce.
Collaborative Divorce
Collaborative divorce is a private, team-based approach that helps separating couples restructure their family with dignity, minimizing emotional and financial strain through respectful communication and innovative conflict resolution.
High Praise for ADR Law
Awards & Accolades
Why Choose ADR Law?
Long Island’s trusted alternative divorce resolution firm
30+ Years Exclusive Experience
Focused solely on Divorce & Family Law—not a side practice
Board Certified Mediator
Certified by the Ackerman Institute for the Family
Three Alternative Divorce Options
Mediation, Negotiated Settlement, or Collaborative Divorce
Published Author & Educator
Co-authored “Stress-Free Divorce” & Adjunct Professor at Hofstra
95% Conflict-Free Resolution Rate
Proven track record of peaceful, successful outcomes
Court-Appointed Special Master
Trusted by Nassau County Supreme Court judges
60-70% Cost Savings
Significantly less expensive than traditional litigation
Faster Resolution
Complete your divorce in 2-4 months vs. 9-24 months with litigation
Ongoing Advanced Training
Highly trained in Collaborative Interdisciplinary Practice
Compassionate, Personalized Care
We listen, understand, and guide you through every step
30+
Years Experience
95%
Conflict-Free Resolution
60-70%
Cost Savings
No obligation • Completely confidential • Same-day appointments available
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How Our Process Works
Getting started with ADR Law is simple. We’ll guide you through every step of your alternative divorce resolution journey.
FREE Consultation
Schedule a complimentary 30-minute consultation where we’ll discuss your situation, answer your questions, and explain your options.
✓ No obligation
✓ Completely confidential
✓ Same-day appointments available
Choose Your Path
Select from three alternative divorce options: Mediation, Negotiated Settlement, or Collaborative Divorce. We’ll guide you to the best fit for your family.
✓ Mediation
✓ Negotiated Settlement
✓ Collaborative Divorce
Resolve & Move Forward
Work with Kim and our team to reach a fair agreement. Most cases are completed in 3-6 sessions over 2-4 months, allowing you to move forward with your life.
✓ Fair & balanced agreements
✓ Faster than litigation
✓ Cost-effective resolution
📞 Call 516.308.2922 or complete our online form
Your Path to a Peaceful Divorce
Three simple steps to transform your family with dignity and respect
FREE Consultation
30 Minutes • No Obligation
Schedule a complimentary consultation where we’ll discuss your situation, answer your questions, and explain your options.
✓ Completely confidential
✓ Same-day available
✓ Virtual or in-person
Choose Your Path
Three Alternative Options
Select from Mediation, Negotiated Settlement, or Collaborative Divorce. We’ll guide you to the best fit for your family’s unique needs.
✓ Mediation
✓ Negotiated Settlement
✓ Collaborative Divorce
Resolve & Move Forward
3-6 Sessions • 2-4 Months
Work with Kim and our team to reach a fair agreement. Most cases are completed in 2-4 months, allowing you to move forward with your life.
✓ Fair agreements
✓ 60-70% cost savings
✓ 4x faster than litigation
Ready to Get Started?
Take the first step toward a peaceful, affordable divorce resolution. Schedule your free consultation today.
Start Your Free Consultation📞 516.308.2922 • 💬 Complete our online form • 📍 Carle Place, NY
Read the Book
Stress-Free Divorce Volume 03: Conversations With Leading Divorce Professionals
Divorce is one of the most stress inducing life events. Ms. Ciesinski has co-authored a book entitled, “Stress-Free Divorce – Volume 3”. In addition to her chapter on collaborative divorce, the book offers the helpful perspectives of attorneys, mental health professionals and financial advisors on reducing the stress attendant to every divorce.
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Frequently Asked Questions
Get answers to common questions about divorce mediation in Long Island, NY
Mediation is better than going to court for most couples because it offers:
- Cost savings: 60-70% less expensive
- Speed: 2-4 months vs. 9-24 months in court
- Privacy: Confidential process vs. public court records
- Control: You make decisions, not a judge
- Less stress: Cooperative vs. adversarial
- Better outcomes: Preserves relationships for co-parenting
Court litigation should be reserved for high-conflict cases where mediation isn’t possible.
While mediation works for most couples, it may not be suitable if:
- There’s a history of domestic violence or abuse
- One spouse is hiding assets or being dishonest
- There’s a significant power imbalance between spouses
- One party refuses to compromise or negotiate in good faith
- Complex legal issues require court intervention
During your free consultation, Kim will assess whether mediation is right for your situation and recommend alternatives if needed.
Both are peaceful alternatives to litigation, but they differ in structure:
Mediation: One neutral mediator works with both spouses to facilitate agreements. More cost-effective and streamlined.
Collaborative Divorce: Each spouse has their own attorney, plus a team of professionals (financial advisors, divorce coaches) working together. More support but higher cost. Both attorneys sign an agreement not to go to court.
We offer both options and will help you choose the best fit during your consultation.
To make your first session productive, bring:
- Recent tax returns (last 2 years)
- Pay stubs and income documentation
- Bank statements and investment account statements
- Mortgage statements and property deeds
- Retirement account statements (401k, IRA, pension)
- Credit card statements and debt information
- List of monthly expenses
- Information about children’s needs and schedules
Don’t worry if you don’t have everything—we’ll provide a complete checklist after your free consultation.